Interactive learning · Free · about 25 min
Understanding relationships —
what happens between two people
Why does it feel easy with some people — and exhausting with others? This course shows you step by step, using two real charts: your own or an example couple’s. No prior knowledge needed, in short lessons.
Who would you like to learn with?
Each lesson is explained using a real connection: you and someone who matters to you — a partner, child, friend or colleague. You can switch at any time.
Person A — you
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Person B — your person
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All data stays in your browser. Enter each local birth time — the time zone is taken from the birthplace.
The seven lessons at a glance
How two charts affect each other: what attracts, what causes friction, and why. Each lesson stands on its own. About 25 minutes in total.
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Two people, one field
Why it feels easy with some people
- How a connection feels has a lot to do with mechanics — not just good intentions.
- The course doesn’t judge: no pattern is good or bad — each has a gift and a challenge.
- Relationship here means: couples, family, friendships or work — the mechanics are the same.
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Two auras in the room
What happens before you say a word
- Your auras exchange information before you say a word.
- Each of you sticks to your own Strategy — that’s the best foundation for any connection.
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Your third chart
Your connection has a design of its own
- Your connection has its own chart — the connection chart.
- This energy belongs to the connection — apart, each of you is back to your own chart.
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The four types of connection
How your channels come together
- Spark (electromagnetic): only comes about through both of you — attraction and friction from the same source.
- Compromise: a whole channel outvotes a single gate — name it, don’t take it personally.
- Dominance: one gives, one receives — relaxed, as long as no one measures themselves against it.
- Companionship: familiar ground you both bring with you.
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What you only are together
Energy that doesn’t belong to either of you alone
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What happens on its own between you
Closely woven or loosely connected?
- Closely woven = a lot of shared definition; the shared field can feel very present. Loosely connected = more open space, and so more flexibility in the shared field.
- The scale is a guide for reading, not a verdict — neither end is better.
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The picture of your connection
Everything at a glance — and where to go next
- The four types of connection — spark, compromise, dominance and companionship — explain why different parts of your connection feel so different.
- No pattern is a verdict: understand the mechanics instead of assigning blame — that’s the whole course in one sentence.